The Sunny Side of Smut

Have you ever meet someone who is slut? If yes you should read this article. My article this week is entitle “The Sunny Side of Smut” is written to informing about the impacts of pornography towards individual that can give positive impacts rather than negative impact. 

The excerpt by Melinda Wenner Moyer, a freelance science writer and frequent contributor to Scientific American Mind suggested that everyone is legal to watching pornography because it is able to prevent sexual violence like rape and sexism. It is doesn’t influences the passion of sex towards society. Therefore, I am disagreed with this article.

In this excerpt, the author enlighten that it is so easy for someone to looking for pornography by compared the past with nowadays. It’s only click on the Google and then everything will appear in front of us. Otherwise, pornography addiction may results to relationship problem. On the other hand, moderate pornography consumption will not contribute to user’s aggressiveness, promote sexism or harm relationships.

The author also stated that users will less likely to commit sexual crimes. Most of the people thought that pornography will hurts women via problem regarding the relationship and sexism but so far there is no evidence that can proves pornography will bring negative impact. Based on the survey that is conducted which is involved 650 Croatia young men indicates that those who are watching pornography will get either more or less satisfied in sex because they have chemistry in intimacy of their relationships and experiences.

Anyhow, it will change when it turned to violent or fetishist porn. It is because this group is more preferred to masturbate and having frequent partner sexual. On the other hand, regular pornography users will not interest in sexism and did not expose the negative attitude towards women.

Are you libertine or romantic?

What is the goal of your love? Did you just get rid of silence, or it will take you to a more serious stage called Marriage? Love plays an important role in our lives. While there is a lunatic even for loving and been loved. In romantic love is the main requirement to be a judgment and our coaches.
Love is a great power because it requires a balance between "Yin and Yang". Which mean those who are willing to change their personality only for love. For example, a passive will be gentleman and gentleman can be a liar just because of love.

 In short it is a phase change and only those who have it know it feels.
No one is able to interpret what is love because it has a thousand and one meanings that cannot be expressed with words but with feelings. Sometimes love comes with love and sometimes with hatred. Although love is a feeling roughly the simple love of the opposite sex, the definition fails to capture the feeling of love is different in that a mixture of love still feeling like a well-known love and hate situation.

In order to realize, love and hate is really thin and suddenly be able to send someone in a deep happiness to misery and vice versa. Those who said romance as a miracle and mystery surrounding the attraction together in a love affair and to get love, love rituals to perform to understand the rhetoric of friendship needs feeding.
Provided full of love and modesty colors are ideal for making and those that best practice is called romantic. The romance is one who become "medicine" for that in need and he is willing to protect their loves one neither while the libertine nor are they the kind of love just to meet the demands of a dry heart and desire. They ignore the feelings of loved ones and using smart strategies and tactics to attract the target set. A romantic lover is comprised of a relatively true kind of love but of the players and love libertine is used as an excuse for personal enjoyment.

beautiful is merely fib

men and women are merely players

Beautiful is nothing

How to make people attracted with us? Do we need to has a good-looking or be a wealthy person? The answer is in oneself. Look at mirror. Do you suitable enough to get who do you want or to make them accept you. Remember one thing that you can fall in love with whoever you want but don’t you hope they will accept you back.  Women and men. Both of them are same. Nobody good or bad. That is what has stated by Robert Greene in his article entitle “...men and women are merely players” that is an excerpt from the book, “The 48 Laws of Power”. 

As for me myself, I also till today still not found my true love. All the love that I’ve experience is a calf-love. Just happy but aimless. That’s not what do I want. I want to get my true love with my own way. Same goes to you. You can’t be others. If you look at the quote of a great Renaissance diplomat and Machiavelli wrote, “Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come ruin among the great number who are not good.” This quote clearly said that you can be a hypocrite or else you’ll ruin yourself. 

our loves is not perfect until we loves Him the most

loves need trustworthiness and loyalty

Everyone has their good side and bad side. It’s up to us how do we manage both of them. Do we are more on good side or more on bad side. This is important because it is how do your show up yourself to other people.

Is it cool having the Facebook account?

    All The Cool Kids Are Quitting Facebook

Facebook helps us to acquituaintance with other people

 What is facebook? You have facebook account? You will feel left behind if you don’t have facebook account. If you feel so, you are wrong. Don’t you think before the existence of facebook, people keep in touch each other by using letter and do we see that they need to struggle so hard to send the message to others? No right? So those who think by not owning facebook account is a left behind person, I can say that your opinion is a cock-and-bull story. Kids today don’t need to have facebook account because it’s such nonsense if you said that it purposes to make friend. Once you own it, if you misuse or too obsessed with it just wait. Until one time you’ll lost everything. Friend, family, time, future...Everything is gone like a sand flying at the desert. 

Mark Zukerberg, the founder of Facebook

      Ok. Let’s back to our topic, is it true that facebook has lost it’s influence especially towards kids? Yeahhh! If so I am the one who the happiest hearing this news. You all can stand up and clap your hand together with me! Well in this world nothing is long lasting. Let’s read the article written by Jenna Wortham, a technology from New York Times, states that the new users of “Facebook” did not reach the expected result. 
  

Having the Facebook is vein

   The percentage of the users is decreasing from October 2009 to October 2010. It’s not shocking at all. Maybe we can say that these is a karma. Being in the top for a long time make we proud and arrogant but once we fallen down can realise us thousand times. Don’t play with fire by disclose your personal at facebook or else you’ll burn yourself. Believe me social networking is weak in term of trust and security. Even though it provides sense of secure but it impossible to stop people from hack or stalk.

Degree of happiness by Betrand Russell

Degree of happiness

Everyone deserves to get the true happiness

Who don’t want get the happiness in their life? Can someone please tell me who? I bet no one will say no to happiness right? For Betrand Russell, a British philosopher, mathematician, and Nobel laureate, which is the author of the book entitled “The Conquest of Happiness”, happiness are sort into two types that is open to human being and the other to those who can read and write. 

In my point of view, this passage means that the happiness is depends on a person oneself to define what kind of happiness they get and how they reach it. He stated in his article that artists are less happy than men of science. That is because for a painter, if the public did not understand what is the meaning hidden behind the painting their effort is meaningless. They will feel so down if their works didn’t get appreciation from others. 

Meanwhile, for men of science they will still be happy with their life even though the public did not understand their work because their work still been using till today especially if they managed to discover new things. For me, what is stated by Betrand are more to personal opinion about happiness and it’s not true at all. 

This is because we can’t judge someone’s happiness by their occupation or either they success or fail on doing something. Even a mad man also knew how to make they feel happy so same goes to us. Most of people said that happiness is a precious and can buy with money. Yes it’s true but do we can reach the peak of happiness if we can’t make others feel happy? To make other people happy is an investment and investment need some money. 

Let’s say a son crying because ask his father to buy the toy so to make his son happy the father must fulfill son’s need right? No matter how much cost of the toy. In the nutshell, money also is one of the ways to get the happiness. Remember, everyone can get their endless happiness by their own way because it’s belonging to everyone.

Thinking Folly by Eckhart Tolle

Thinking folly

We less using our brain because we fear to fail

“Thinking Folly” is an article that has written by a talented writer and a contemporary spiritual teacher named Eckhart Tolle. He stated that via thinking it can be a disease to us. I’m not on his side or object him but in my opinion, his statement can be wrong and can be true. As for me myself, we must think deeply no matter what before we do something so that we are not slip up. We can’t our mind from thinking of something. 

Our life journey also was shaped based on our think a lot of things. Why we do that? Because we don’t want to regret in the future because of something that caused by our wrong decision before. We should grateful because we are different with another creature. We have mind and able to think then decided what’s right and what’s wrong or else we are in the same boat with animal or plant because they do not own this miracle gift that we call as a mind. 

On the other hand, we are easily cheated by our own mind. Let’s say everyone scare to ghost in the darkness but when they are in bright place do they still in scare? Ask yourself why this happen? This is because they are controlled by their mind. In the darkness their mind will said that there are ghost everywhere that is why they will feel uneasy and scare while in bright place the set their mind that there is nothing to scare so we safe. 

Think is a good to get the best result of something but on one time we think a lot of things until our brain become so snarl-up how could we think rationally? That’s why Eckhart stated that thinking can be a disease.

The Steve Jobs Nobody Knew by Jeff Goodell

Steve with one of Apple product

Ok enough with Adolf Hitler and Jews. Now we proceed with my second post which about ‘The Steve Jobs Nobody Knew’ by Jeff Goddell. The title made me eager to read it because I hope I can reveal the secret of Steve Jobs that maybe most of us don’t know him during he still alive. Same goes to me. Actually, I only had known him when he already passed away last year. After I read the article about him, I can say that he is an ambitious, straight out, clever and optimistic person in his job. 

Collection of Apple phones

He was a good leader and very charismatic. He also has own way to lead his employee to achieve the success in their field. Moreover, he has strong-point in computer field and able to establish his company single-handed. He also acted as a slave-driver for his employee. By seeing to the way of his work, no wonder he able to make Apple in vogue and well known today. It is not possible right? I think we should make his professional success as a mentor and grab every chance to enhance ourselves. From nobody to somebody that’s not possible. Even though he is good in professional but suck in personal life. His attitude still worst especially towards his daughter. As a father, he was irresponsible at all. 

Steve success in his career but fail in his personal life

Can you imagine how could he embarrassed his girlfriend, Chrisann Brennan in front of public and deny his paternity until it was confirmed by DNA? It is something that very ashamed for a respectful person like him. I can say that he less sense of soft option. He is easy to be hated by his menacing behaviour but not his professional as he alone rise up to the challenge and built the Apple Empire and made it famous until this day. The man itself is a legend but he is also a human being.