Fickle friend

Who is person that you will looking every time you have problem? Is it your family or friends? Or maybe your foes? Ok this week my article is about the interesting topic which is “Fickle Friends” written by Kirsten Weir.

Since we are born until we died we’ll keep befriending with people around us. Either we are the one who start the relationship or we are the one who end it but the common is friend will continue alternating.

After reed this article now only I knew that there was one kind of friend who called, “frenemies”.

Frenemies can be classified as a friend that at the same time is our enemies. They have two characteristic on one time. During in trouble, they would be with you to be your shoulder to cry on but the time you in peak of successful they will backstabs you and struggles to make you down. These types of friend must be avoiding and stay away.

It is so hard for us to choose those who are kind-hearted, gentleman, nice and good and totally impossible for us to filter their behavior one by one before we give our hand to start the friendship but we can changes it to be much better. From black to white and dark to bright.

Among of our friend, it is not possible for us to have frenemy. Maybe this moment we are mingling with them, eat together, stay together and cry together but who knows in black side she or he actually is thinking about the plan how to make fool with us or is waiting for the best chance to down us. So be careful! 

To suspect also not a easy things. That is because we will easily feel sympathy and fall in love with someone. So at that time we are shadowing by the glory moment and we will look everybody nice in our naked eyes. So this is the chance for frenemy to take out their deception and attack us from behind without or we are notice it.